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life is all about making choices, isnt it?

when a couple going together for some time, then come along someone, naturally man start to compare. the more you dwell on each's difference, the more you diminsh the sparks and needless to say, choices are being made. one word, one action, one person - you destroy everything you two use to hold.

i used to wonder why man in the olden days can stay faithful to one partner, even though their marriage is an arranged one. now I got it. that's because firstly, once married, they cant divorce; while man these days can make the choice to divorce. secondly, you only have one partner till the end, you dun have the choice to know new pple or bridge platonic friendships; while man today may have 1 girlfriend/boyfriend and know many other persons of the opposite sex or have best friend of the opposite sex.

if only pple can think that that's the way life is. you cant have everything going on perfectly, someday, sometime and somehow, pple change, feelings change and then, reality sets in. and it is certainly not easy to be gracious of the change.

weekends seem dreading but you can make the choice to welcome it. or you can also make the choice to dwell on the unhappiness during the wkend. I may not know what's going on, but the choice is ultimately yours.

every hour, every minute or every second, man is making a choice. like right now, i can make my choice whether to go continue watching my vcd or dragging my relunctant self for t*. sometimes, i do get so fed up with making choices.

man just has to accept that everyday on earth, we have to make choices. and since we have to make choices all the time, we better make sure we make the correct choices. but then again, if life's indeed about making right choices, i guess, i haven quite learn how to make the right ones...

a little bit of narcissism won't hurt, and vanity isn't a sin.




涵妍。hanyan ....