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Thursday, May 04, 2006
the secret was kept for 20 years!!! 11:12 AM

Yesterday was my dad's dad death anniversary and as usual we whipped up many of his fav dishes n went to 'pai' him at our shophouse-cum-apartment. i dint want to go coz i noe how boring (opps) to be there with onli channel 8, channel U and channel 5 to watch and then waiting for ah gong to 'finish' the food before we can start eating. (its a tradition, for those who dun understand, nvm just skip through. haha) but my dad was already giving me that black face n said that since im free why not go. (i got tuition at 330 thou)

so i went down. and not surprisingly, i was the only grandchild there. because its a wkday and those schooling are stil in school and those working obviously cant make it. however most of my uncles and aunties are there. my dad being the free man always comes (his work is mobile). and imagine how many times i have to repeat why i was seen there with em on a wkday.

me: "ya, exams just finished so now holiday lo. bt gg to start work. nxt wk! sch's attachment!"
my relatives: " which year liao?"
me: "end of 2nd year le!"
them: "wah so fast ah!" then they will start spreading in mixed hokkien cum english cum chinese "wah, very fast hor, han yan 2nd year liao!"
them: "where ur attachment?"
me: "boon lay lo. so far!!"
them: "haiya u got free ride leh (they noe my dad works boon lay)
(the list goes on......)


and not only one asks. almost everyone ask and its the same question over and over again. gosh. n i repeat my answers over and over again.

haha. im not complaining if you guys are mistaken. i just find it funny. and found myself thinking, will we continue this tradition 10years later? when all my uncles and aunties hair have turned realie white? will us (cussies) carry on this gathering? i have always lost count how many such gatherings we have. minus cny, i guess at least 10 of em each year. its always fun to be with em and my cousins just that it always reminds me too that when we were younger, those aunties n my mom they were just start to compare each other's child with one another. and make us- the kids so stressed. like ur son's or daughter's grades lar. the achievement lar. haiyo. i swear i wun do that to my children! and because my dad was the youngest so myself my bro and my sis realie got a lot of comparison. (i got 5 uncles and 4 aunties and imagine the no of cussies i have)

guess my mom's life then wasnt easy too. got to worry for our grades n our 'competitors'.

hah. i make it sound till qutie bad ah? still, i love this bigggggg family. *big grins* and usually those gatherings the food is super duper yummy. always eat to my satisfaction! mommy's share of food always is the cleaniest! coz she cooks realie well and everyone just love her food (thou its always the same). one of my aunty de hor wah, she dun usually cook lar so her contribution is always CANNED FOOD. wahahhah. that explains why hers always gt left overs.

and i dint intend to tell them about my bdae celebration yet. bt just nice this aunt (eldest uncle wife) of mine ask me whens my bdae. she noes this year is my turn to turn 21. so i said 2nd july. and she ask if im doing any celebration. i said "ya at aranda. pasir ris." she said ok and immediately ask what i want. of course out of courtesy, u got to reply "oh no need lar. u all come can liao." muhahahha. but i noe there will stil be pressies if not hong bao lar. hiek hiek*

it was then i noe that my chinese bdae is on 15th may! coz my third aunt overheard my bdae ma then she asked me if im celebrating chi or eng bdae. i said of course eng, i dun even noe whens my chi bdae! then she told me "wu yue shi wu hao". i was like wah how u noe lar. then she said coz tt time mummy went over to "zuo yue zi" so she rmb. wah. for 20 years, i was kept in the dark! LOL.


no wonder i love the moon so much! 15th may! got this chinese song rite.. shi wu de yue liang........." such a nice bdae date! :)



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周杰伦-说好的幸福呢

你的绘画凌乱着在这个时刻
我像气氛纯白的白鸽甜蜜散落了
继续莫名的拉扯我还爱你了
但你断断续续唱着歌假作没事了
时间过了走了
爱情面临选择
你冷了倦了我哭了
一开始都不快乐
你用卡片纸写着
有些爱只给到这真的痛了

怎么了你累了说好的幸福呢
我懂了不说了爱淡了梦远了
开心与不开心一意一心数着你在不舍
那些爱过的感觉都太深刻我都还记得
你不懂了说好的幸福呢
我错了泪干了放手了后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒在旋转着要怎么停呢

你的绘画凌乱着在这个时刻
我像气氛纯白的白鸽甜蜜散落了
继续莫名的拉扯我还爱你了
但你断断续续唱着歌假作没事了
时间过了走了
爱情面临选择
你冷了倦了我哭了
一开始都不快乐
你用卡片纸写着
有些爱只给到这真的痛了

怎么了你累了说好的幸福呢
我懂了不说了爱淡了梦远了
开心与不开心一意一心数着你在不舍
那些爱过的感觉都太深刻我都还记得
你不懂了说好的幸福呢
我错了泪干了放手了后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒在旋转着要怎么停呢

怎么了你累了说好的幸福呢
我懂了不说了爱淡了梦远了
我都还记得
你不懂了说好的幸福呢
我错了泪干了放手了后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒在旋转着要怎么停呢